I don’t usually blog at 6 in the morning.

But then again, I also don’t usually kiss my husband goodbye at 5:45 in the morning as he goes to get on a plane to Ulanbattar, the capital of Mongolia.

He’s going with two other men from our organization to teach a finance and business class to a group of 30 Mongolian pastors.  He’s nervous, as he doesn’t think public speaking or teaching is one of his strengths.  I’m nervous, as I can imagine all sorts of terrible things that could happen to him on the trip.

So if you think of us, will you say a prayer that Monday comes quickly and he’s back safe and soundly?  And, most importantly, that he’s used in ways he doesn’t anticipate.


Jacob and I are getting an opportunity to come to the good ‘ole US of A later this month!  We leave on June 28 for Houston, TX where Jacob’s youngest brother will be getting married over the 4th of July weekend.  (For those familiar with Scarlet Threads, the beautiful bride-to-be is Eileen, my ST co-laborer!)  We’ll be spending that first week in Houston and then driving through Dallas and (possibly) Waco.  I know for sure we’ll be doing a little get-together like we did last summer in Dallas.  It will be sometime in the week after the 4th of July.  If you want more details, please e-mail us and we’ll keep you posted.  Also toying with the idea of doing something similar in Houston, though not sure if there’s really any interest for that… so, if you are in the Houston vicinity and would be interested in meeting up, please let me know.  We’ve already got a pretty full Houston schedule, but we might squeeze a group gathering in if there’s interest.  I personally think it’s a lot of fun to meet people who I’ve come to know and love through the blog, so I hope you’ll stop by if you can!  We’ll be in the states until August 2… the latter part of our trip will be spent in the Vancouver, WA area — so we could do a gathering in that area, too, if there’s interest.  The bulk of our time will be spent in the TX Panhandle.

I’ve realized something, sitting here in a quiet house this morning… I think I keep half-way expecting/bracing myself for God to “pull a Job” on me.  We’ve recently been blessed in a major way.  (I’ll explain more later.)  The other day, I was talking to one of the older, wiser Chinese women I have the pleasure of working with, and I told her that I was totally not expecting to be blessed in this way.  She smiled and told me that God loves us and is happy to give us good gifts.  In my head, I thought: “Yes, but God loves the starving Africans, too.  And he loves the orphans who have been abandoned with 5+ special needs too.  And why should I get so many good gifts when other people, who He also loves, suffer so much?”

I know some people struggle with a sense of entitlement with God… sort of an “I deserve XYZ!  Why won’t you let me have it?”  My struggle is the opposite.  When something good happens, I often find myself bracing for the object lesson that “inevitably will follow.”  You know, the one where God allows the “good thing” to be taken away from me so that He can see how faithful I am and whether or not I really love Him come fair or foul weather.  To be honest, these object lessons haven’t inevitably followed.  God hasn’t “pulled a Job” on me.
And I don’t like being so suspicious of God.  
But I have a hard time living in the present moment of His daily goodness.  A good friend told me last week, “The one place God can’t be with us is in our fears about the future.”  He’s not there, because the fears aren’t real.  They haven’t happened yet.  God is only with us in the here and now, and we experience Him when we live in the present – accepting His gifts and letting Him carry our trials.
So as I imagine all the terrible things that could take my husband — who I love so very much — away from me, I’m not experiencing God.  And, I’m failing to embrace the moment in thankfulness and praise.  I’m not thanking God for stretching my husband out of his comfort zone; for giving him a new experience and opportunity; for using the wisdom I know he has in this area to bless others.  I get wrapped up in imaginary disasters and then question His goodness and mercy.
God is a lot scarier in my imagination than He is in my experience.  

6 thoughts on “Ulanbattar?!

  1. Carrie-

    What a small world- I don't remember how I found your blog originally, but I've read occasionally for awhile now. But I happen to be serving as a missionary in Ulaanbaatar. I could hardly believe it when I read that your husband is on your way here:-) I will definitely keep you both in my prayers as he travels. And I can't help but find myself smiling at the connections that happen in this large world via blogs and the web.

    blessings! Erin


  2. Praying for Jacob…and for his sweet wife!
    Love this:
    “”The one place God can't be with us is in our fears about the future.”
    I love your honesty, Carrie. You voice so many things that brew in my mind!
    Will you be coming through Alabama? Even a smidge? Just a tippy top corner of it maybe? 😉


  3. I struggle with the exact same thing. This feeling that I don't deserve the gifts God has given me. And it saddens me sometimes because the greatest gift he gives me is his love and I have trouble accepting it.

    P.S. If you make it to Vancouver I would love to meet up.


  4. I'm so glad God is bringing others into your life to speak the wisdom He wants you to hear. There's no reason to be suspicious of God, but yet I find myself doing the same thing…perhaps because we know how undeserving we are of His grace? I know I don't deserve anything good, so when I receive it I bask in it! 🙂 And I'm praying the same for you my dear friend…

    Can't wait to see you in Dallas!!!


  5. Oh, Carrie- we are SO alike in this way! Wish you'd be in NH! 🙂 We could talk over coffee!

    I'll be praying for you and for Jacob! Hope you have a wonderfully amazing trip back to the states!


  6. Carrie –
    We would love to meet you guys if you come through Waco name the time and place and we'll be there. I have been meaning to write you privately to tell you of a really cool thing … will try to do it today!


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